We need to adopt the belief that we can change in a moment \u2013 after all, if you can create a problem in a moment, you should be able to create a solution too \u2013 right? You and I both know that when people finally do change, they do it in a moment, don\u2019t they? There\u2019s an instant when the change occurs. Why not make that instant NOW? Usually, it\u2019s the getting ready to change that takes people time.<\/p>\n
One of my favourite mantras is: \u201cToo much analysis leads to paralysis!\u201d<\/p>\n
We can analyse our problems for years \u2013 but nothing changes until we change the sensations we link to an experience in our nervous system \u2013 the power of your brain. Reframing your mind-sets is the key to breaking patterns.<\/p>\n
People who feel stuck or blocked are locked into points of view. We tend to act in this way through habit and an inability to welcome alternative ideas. In this situation we allow the past to create our present. Everything is subject to reconstruction and renewal. The \u201cre\u201d factor is the basis of resurrecting, reshaping, regenerating, reviving and rejuvenating.<\/p>\n
Creative persons live in a state of constant search and exploration. The creative way of looking at the world assumes multiple truths and interactions among them. As Walt Whitman expressed it, the individual person contains multitudes. And so, the most fundamental skill of the creative person is the ability to constantly re-vision the world. The patterns of the constructed self CAN be broken, transcended to reach new heights.<\/p>\n
In fact, there are 3 specific beliefs about responsibility that a person must have if they are going to create long-term change.<\/strong> You want to know them? Here they are.<\/p>\n 1. First, we must believe, SOMETHING MUST CHANGE<\/strong> \u2013 not that it should change, or that it could or ought to change, but that it absolutely MUST. It\u2019s only when something becomes a \u201cmust\u201d that we begin the process of truly doing what\u2019s necessary to shift the quality of our lives.<\/p>\n 2. We must not only believe that things must change, BUT WE MUST BELIEVE, \u201cI MUST CHANGE IT\u201d<\/strong>. We must see ourselves as the source of the change. Otherwise, we\u2019ll always be looking for someone else to make the changes for us, and we\u2019ll always have someone else to blame when it doesn\u2019t work out. We must be the source of our change if our change is going to last.<\/p>\n 3. Third, we have to believe, \u201cI CAN CHANGE IT\u201d<\/strong> \u2013 without believing that it\u2019s possible to change, we stand no chance of carrying through on our desires.<\/p>\n Humanity is a kingdom of Nature which, according to the Ageless Wisdom Teachings, suffers more conflict than any other kingdom. Life on Earth is a process of constant conflict, pulls and counterpulls. What we see as a problem, that which is not agreeable to us, becomes the obstacle. We have to include all those elements to complete the experience of Oneness. And when the personal viewpoint no longer exists, when we perceive the so-called \u201cgood\u201d and \u201cbad\u201d as two aspects of the One Background, then we are living in a greater Reality.<\/p>\n It is a training in achieving HARMONY THRU CONFLICT. The nature of life is to contain both chaos and order. But it is this uncertainty that you feel inside yourself that becomes the Doorway to Wisdom. Opening the heart to the disturbing situation enables us to invert its energy. So when we use our disturbances as materials of expression, we see that everything in life is fuel for the creative process. Creativity puts toxins to good use. This will show us that Humanity\u2019s job on planet Earth is to bring Love into the world of Duality. And the Christ-mass Festival is a reminder each year to rise above our personal likes & dislikes and give out the Light & Love to each other and step into that sense of ONENESS which is WHOLENESS.<\/p>\n By Derek Seagrief<\/a><\/p>\n By Derek Seagrief<\/a> is an internationally recognised astrologer, teacher, lecturer, author, and astro-therapist, grounded in PsychoSynthesis. Born in London, August 1952 and living in Denmark from 1978. For more than 24 years Derek has travelled throughout Scandinavia and England offering a wide variety of workshops and personal consultations. Originally started his career as artist and sculptor with exhibitions in both London and New York. Started to teach himself both Tarot and Astrology at the age of 17. From the time of arrival in Denmark he has been working full time in the field of intuitive astrology, combining psychology, Psychosynthesis and psychotherapy together in a living and meaningful wholeness. Derek has a rich experience with the many branches of astrology and this led to the creation of a unique 2-Year education The Unicorn School of Astro-Psychology. The School was among the first to offer students a professional training in counselling, combining Astrology and modern psychology through the inspiration of PsychoSynthesis. Among its teachers was Tad Mann and LiseLotte Mann. Derek established the School for Living Kabbalah in 1999. Derek has been a regular contributor to many magazines, both Scandinavian and international throughout the years, and been a key speaker at international astrology Conferences. Author of 9 privately published books. www.seagrief.com. Derek has also been a guest lecturer at The Hercules School of Astrology.<\/p>\n Photo by prottoy hassan<\/a> on Unsplash<\/a>.<\/p>\n We can analyse our problems for years \u2013 but nothing changes until we change the sensations we link to an experience in our nervous system \u2013 the power of your brain. Reframing your mindsets is the key to breaking patterns. 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\nOne of the world\u2019s most universal spiritual exercises involves establishing empathy and respect for adversaries and annoyances.<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/cdn.omstars.com\/derek_profile.png\")
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